I dont understand this virgo woman at all help this scorpio out?

we kicked off great, but every now and then we have our issues. after about a month of talking she wanted to make us like in an official relationship, but i told her not yet and to wait cuz i still needed to know more about her. when i told her that thru the phone she hung up on me and said that "was a blow to the heart" i explained to her how i felt and the next day we were cool again. its been a week now and she hasnt responded to any of my phone calls or texts. i deleted her from FB cuz i was pretty much drunk with friends. i finally found out a week ago that she's in kansas b/c her godfather is dying and will be back in a few days. she apologized and everything. i just want to talk to her now and she never responds to me. is she just not into me anymore or what? and would she lie to me? i told her that if she doesnt like me jus say it instead of putting me thru this. virgo women help me out